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    Success: More Than an Outcome, a Lasting Commitment

    Trust and consistency bring vision to life, with a strong mindset ensuring continued progress.
    By Serena DeStefani – RCN Capital
    October 9, 2025
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    Success, as defined by Merriam-Webster, is a “favorable or desired outcome.” Simple on the surface—but incredibly powerful when you take it to heart. Because to reach that outcome, you first have to want it—deeply, intentionally, relentlessly.

    Your mindset is your greatest asset, no matter what industry you’re in. I believe that success begins when you visualize the end goal and lock in the determination to make it happen. It’s a mental commitment, like hard coding your future into your present self.

    For me, that drive shows up in every project and every client relationship. I want my clients to win. I want them to succeed in their ventures just as much as I want to succeed in mine. That competitive mindset doesn’t mean pushing for a deal at any cost—it means being clear-eyed and strategic about how to deliver value. If the solution I offer doesn’t align with a client’s project, I’m not here to force the fit. I’m here to build trust.

    RCN Capital & Uriel Fleicher

    Because in my world, success isn’t just about closing the deal in front of me—it’s about building trust so that clients know they can come back for the next one. Whether it’s the next deal, a new question, or simply seeking advice, I want to be their go-to partner. The person they know will show up, understand their goals, and help them navigate what’s next. That kind of enduring relationship is what true success looks like to me.

    Staying informed about what other lenders are doing in this space helps me serve my clients even better. It turns me into a resource, not just a provider. And that, in turn, sets me apart.

    At the heart of it all is this: success starts with the desire to achieve, but it’s sustained by the relationships you build and the mindset you bring to every challenge. At the end of the day, success isn’t a single outcome—it’s a series of commitments. To the goal. To the journey. And most importantly, to the people you serve along the way.

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