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    Wonder Is Beautiful — But Deadlines Are Real

    By Uriel Fleicher
    May 17, 2025
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    Imagine a child seeing the ocean for the first time. He laughs, throws water in the air, dances with the waves. His father watches him, eyes full of joy. You watch them too, and something in you softens.

    That, right there, is the magic of wonder.
    That moment where life isn’t measured, controlled, optimized.
    It just… happens.
    And it feels right.

    We must never lose our sense of wonder. It keeps us human. It reminds us that we’re alive, not just performing. That beauty still exists, even when no one is watching.
    We could stop the article here, add a quote from a philosopher, and call it a day.

    But let’s be honest.

    Here’s what happens next in real life:
    You close your laptop, deeply inspired.
    You walk to the window to breathe, to contemplate.
    And then you get a Slack notification:
    “Did you send the report?”

    And another:
    “Let’s jump on a quick call?”

    And suddenly, you remember:
    Your KPIs are down. Your leads are cold. The other guy just hit his target, posted about it, and got promoted.

    So yes, wonder is nice. But your manager won’t care that you felt deeply connected with the present moment.

    Without results, you’re out.

    Let’s not sugarcoat it:

    • Relaxationis beautiful—until it becomes your excuse for not delivering.
    • Mindfulnesssounds amazing—until you realize you’ve mindfully fallen behind.
    • And taking a pausemight feel sacred—until someone else closes the deal while you’re staring at clouds.

    So what’s the solution?

    Still go to the window.
    Yes, really. Go. Breathe. Contemplate.
    But don’t jump.
    Don’t spiral.
    Don’t turn one bad month into a life philosophy of defeat.

    Just take a deep breath. Reset.
    Because better moments will come.

    And then?

    Now, no more brake — go to work.

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